Wednesday, February 3, 2016

Equal rights in SG. Let's push it - in whatever way you think it should be

"... regardless of race, language or religion
to build a democratic society
based on justice and equality
so as to achieve happiness, prosperity and progress for our nation."

I never REALLY understood what those lines meant though i had uttered it every morning, more than i could have known over the 16 years of schooling in SG. The 4 sacred lines were meaningless to me then - because i didn't understand what it meant, and it is meaningless to me now too - because now i know what it SHOULD REALLY mean. So it was and is just lip service. 

What equal rights are we referring to? If rights are equal why is it always lop-sided, favouring the left? Why are there instances where minorities fought for their rights but were rejected because policies are such and such. Who made those policies? Aren't the policies supposed to consider all that affect every individual, thus forming an anti-discriminatory society, an equal rights for all regardless of race or religion? Rights for the minorities to be inclusive too, no?

I find it hard to believe that the sunny island I adore-ly call home, comprising of more than 4 different cultures, still turn a blind eye to exercise equal rights. Come on, I'm not talking about extreme request but to meet the basic practical requests of one's daily lifestyle  in order for him or her to live in what he or she believes in. However, in the southern hemisphere where it now becomes my temporary home, where more than 50% are caucasions albeit Europeans etc, the minorities are well taken care of. Yes, there may be hatred expressed here and there, no doubt about it but where it comes to human rights, they are treated as equal. As equal as the majority. There is a Commission set up just for this and I dare you to directly or indirectly discriminate one in a workplace, a complaint will come flying right through the commissioner's window. And you are screwed. It's as simple as allowing one to observe the basic rights: allowing hijab at workplace for Muslims and observing the Kosher diet for Jews, among other practices. Rights are not exclusive to religions. Even employees with kids have their own rights. Companies are not allowed to observe or carry out an event where it will cause a disadvantage to employees with kids. That, my friend, is an indirect discrimination.

But in SG, i see the opposite. Imagine the last scenario mentioned above in an SG setting and you'll get other employees rolling their eyes; and bitch about how the disadvantaged employees spoil the company's initial decision etc. And the decision? Well, most companies tend to sway to the "majority wins" outcome. You cannot make it, too bad lorrr... 

And we, SG'eans tend to judge or stereotype cultures and people. Eh, he doesn't need to do it what... So it means it's ok that you don't do/need it too rite? Different people of the same culture may or may not have the same lifestyle as like we say, to each it's own. But that does't discount the fact that that very right should be ruled out altogether.

Now I'M starting to roll my eyes.

We really need to relook at our pledge. But that'll be the unthinkable and might start a riot (sarcastic). What was i thinking... tsk tsk tsk.... Review our policies is more practical.

I strongly encourage my fellow citizens to live abroad if their situations allow. Not necessarily for the rest of their entire life, but at least enough to experience what others practice that we do not. It'll open up ur vision and mind to whats's beyond the tiny island called home to a supposedly democratic society.

Tuesday, February 2, 2016

The kind of weather that i love

It's been raining with cool temperature the entire week albeit summer. Only yesterday was slightly hot at about 28 degrees. The day before, we woke up to a misty, foggy morning. It was beautiful. Brought us back to the time we drove in New Zealand in the fog. It was surreal but dangerous, i have to admit. For that morning, add in someone with a Sherlock Holmes coat and a smoking pipe, it made a perfect movie scene.

At that morning, I wished I had stayed at one of the houses near the Mount Ridley lookout. Open the bedroom door and all I would see and feel mist blowing into my face and the whole house would feel like those in a thriller or haunted movie. So refreshing!!!

I have to add that sometimes iphone takes too good a picture. Too clear that the fog "disappeared" too.  ><

Visibility was bad. Couldn't see past the park across the street. Actual was foggier. iphone was too good.

From Pa's ute. The fog was clearing.

Nurul's bento

Not sure what to expect for lunch, I made Nurul a simple bento - hamburger Ramly, fruits and muesli bar. But she had BBQ at school. The school said they catered to all the different dietary requirements including Halal, so she had beef sausages then. It's ok Kak, you were not in doubt, don't fret.  :)



Bento chef wannabe Day #14-17

We did a whole lot of groccery shopping at Hong Kong supermarket last Aust Day. Hong Kong supermarket is the Aussie cousin of Sheng Shiong. What you want, they'd have it and the price is cheaper than those sold at Woolies and the Asian shops at Craigieburn. I assumed it is because the suburb where they are, is like a little Asian town. Lots of Chinese and other Asian nationalities. You can count, with both hands, the number of Aussie caucasians you spot on the street. That's how Asian-ised that suburb is... heheheheheh. Mak bought hokkien noodles so i thot I'd make it for Pa's Bento one of the days.

 Day #14: Corned beef with mushroom sandwich, bananas and strawberries



No,it was not an open-faced sandwich. For photo taking only, i removed the top bread  :)

Day #15: Mee goreng semi-basah, bananas and strawberries (again! ehhehe ran out of other fruits)
 



Day #16: Nasi pattaya with teriyaki fried rice inside, strawberries and grapes.



Day #17: That's today! Macaroni in 4 cheese sauce sprinkled with parsley and crushed black peppers, bananas and kiwis (finally a different fruit!  :p)


I.LUV.GROCCERY.SHOPPING.

I am amazed at myself for some of the things i do. Things which i usually think only happen to other people. But in fact, I am one too! I used to wonder why oh why do aunties and makciks spend loooong hours in the supermarket strutting down aisle after aisle with their basket trolley in tow. Some shopped even in their baju butterfly!

And now i realise, I am one too! NO, not the baju butterfly! I dun wear that. Don't even have it at home. I just find that attire weird. But Cik Yon bought a mini baju butterfly for nurul when she was 1+ yrs old. That was so cute!!!! Think that baju works on kids but not on older folks. Anywhoooo, I was referring to the spending of an entire day at the supermarket. I can spend long hours in there, going down aisle after aisle. Looking and picking up items like i've never seen them before (actual fact, i see the items twice per week minimum). I'd read the ingredients and compared the prices like i would even buy them. It's just the entire supermarket experience that excites me! Its just so.... BIG! And things are orderly placed. I like! OCD?? Not really... hmmmm...

So i went to Woolies this morning with only 2 things in mind, a loose set of paper and a USB, for Nurul. But i came home with 5 items. That too, I limited myself to the timing since it was raining plus i had only $50 and determined not to spend anymore than that.  :P

There. Me.  :)

Wednesday, January 27, 2016

Riyan's Thornbury soccer clinic

I want Riyan to be active in sports rather than tuck his face into the iphone or ipad playing games. He loves football or what-they-call here, soccer. The thing i like about Australia is that they focus on family and kids. School holidays would mean that kids friendly places such as zoos and the likes are FREE for kids! Even normal day weekends are FREE for kids. Listen up Singapore, do something nice for your kids, huh? It should not be all about the profit.

The norm is for Aussie families to travel out of the state or camping or any family bonding activities say around Christmas. Closer to the starting of new school term, they have sports clinics and camps in Jan. Did i mention he loves soccer? Yes. He does. So this mama looked into anything sporty for him to take part in and mingle with the other Aussie kids. It'd build up his self confidence and maybe communication skills, if he even talks! heheehehehh I signed him up for a half day soccer clinic on one Saturday in Thornbury, under Thornbury United Football Club. Price was affordable at $45 from 9am-12noon. And Alhamdulillah, the timing worked well as I was scheduled for my volunteer training that very same day. Riyan was elated and definitely looked forward to the session though he might not have expressed it. 

As usual, he was the outstanding one. Even back in SG, he would either be the only Malay, or the only Muslim in whatever enrichment activities he signed up for... *sigh* For the clinic, he was the only Asian and only Muslim. It's alright. Good to be different, boy!

The clinic was awesome under the perfect weather and great coaches. Of course, the whole clan witnessed his virgin soccer clinic heheheheheheh He learnt proper skills and techniques, got snacks, medal and some freebies for the clinic. He enjoyed it. Thank you coaches for making history for him. :) Lovely!

The team that made through the day. The juniors were so adorable!

Getting geared up

That A after his name was supposed to be Amalina... and not Al... they mixed it up...  > < hehe

Warming up with Pa

Supporting department



with his coaches...



Bento chef wannabe Day #11 and 13

I am fasting today so I'm not sure how flavorful today's Bento was. Got Pa to taste it before i packed it. Too bland he said. I added more salt. But not sure if it's a wee bit salty... InsyaAllah it'd be delicious  ;p

Day #13: Dark soy fried rice with egg, potato in sambal and mangoes



Day #11: Fried instant noodles with cripsy crushed prawns and poached egg, cucumber drizzled with tomato sauce and oranges.




I missed taking a quick shot of yesterday's (Day #12). But it was the remaining pizza and chicken burger. Purchased the pizza when we were in Springvale the day before (Australia Day). From a Halal corner outlet diagonally opposite Dandenong Market. Labelled itself as Taste of Heaven pizza. ahhahahahah i found the name comical, something which would suit some Hawaiian beach front food outlet and not much related to the italian favourite. Side tracked, the entire stretch, well almost the entire, were Halal food outlets mostly Afghan diners. Sadly few patrons but maybe it was due to everyone partying out and barbie-ing on the day which some Australians hate due to the fact that it was the day the indigenious land was invaded... rather emotional though. Back to pizza, the pizza was sooo reasonably priced, unlike Singapore's. A big family size for only $13! And i mean REALLY big. Back home you could only can about a personal pan for that price from pizza hut and the likes of it. The pizza was Hawaiian with plentyful of stripped turkey ham and a generous amount of sweet pineapples. Alhmadulillah, the best and most important part was, it stayed delectably soft the day after. How did they do that??!!? Pizza Hut's pizza used to go hard by the next morning and had to be heated up and still became hard after it cooled down. It's in the dough. What special ingredients did they add huh??